Wake Up Men! Communication Women Understand

Our culture is full of reasons why women and men don’t get along. The mistake that men tend to make is thinking of women as complex, mysterious creatures. But the reality is that few men take the time to understand their needs, desires and character. I have spent my whole life trying to understand, love and explore the opposite sex. Though our culture encourages the exploitation of women’s sexual attributes, avoiding them is one of the keys to your success with women.

Women are not Objects
We are accustomed to seeing half naked women all over the television, the magazines and even the streets.  So it’s no wonder that it’s difficult to maintain eye contact with them. Eye contact is something that is overlooked by men but is yet one of the most important steps to starting a relationship with a woman. In some cultures eye contact is a sign of disrespect; but in ours, it is one of the keys to showing respect. Hollywood movies usually shoot women from the bottom up, with conspicuous pauses at certain body parts. This is nothing short of an indoctrination of how to look at women. Avoid this tendency, and look at women in their eyes…regardless of what they are wearing! If you must, sneak a peak once you have established solid eye contact.

Details
Another overlooked factor to successful communication with women is attention to details. Women, not all of course, are extremely keen on details. From the print on your shirt, to the color coordination between garments, women usually notice it all.  Noticing details will ensure you a new found respect among women.  Some examples to get you started would be noticing scents, clothing accessories, and earrings. Don’t take it from me, put it into practice and see the results.

Communication
It is not enough to be an active speaker,  you must be an active listener as well.  When you listen and take mental notes (active listening), you will not only learn about the woman, but about yourself, too. When you master active listening, you will begin to see that women divulge all kinds of personal information. The most important part of active listening is asking questions, taking care not to over do it, but enough to show that you are engaged in the conversation. Once women see that you are engaged, you have passed through their door of confidence and trust.

Trust is important to all of us, yet men gain trust in ways that are very different than how women gain trust. Men like to know that their crew has their back in fights and are willing to lie for them if necessary. While women, on the other hand, will most likely trust you if you listen. But it’s very important that you don’t pretend to listen, because women, like I said, are keen on details and will spot your poor acting skills.  Instead, ask questions that are of mutual interest to the both of you and that are not too personal in nature. If she wants to reveal personal information, great; otherwise, don’t be too nosy.

A very common theme that I hear woman complain about is men who talk about themselves too much. Remember, communication is about give and take — it has to be mutual. Most women don’t care about your video game conquering skills and how many points you scored while playing basketball. But what they are interested in hearing, is what your goals and vision may be.

Having Vision
After talking to hundreds of women of all ages, races and creeds about what they look for in a man, I found one common denominator — women seem to like a man with vision. Even if the profession you aspire to be in may not be prestigious, tell her about it. Don’t believe the hype that women just want a money earner. What is more important to women is knowing that their partner is engaged in life.  Vision could be career oriented or simply a dream of retiring to the country; just look ahead a bit and discuss it with her.

Simply reading this will not be enough, put it into practice. Go out there and communicate with her, tell her how beautiful she looks, compliment an accessory, notice her scent when she walks in the room — just let her know you are there. These simple tools will give you an edge over those less enlightened men! Live, Love and Learn.

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